I AM AND I AM BECOMING

Pauline NGONGANG
3 min readSep 1, 2022

From the heading, there’s a surface meaning, and moving closer to the deeper meaning more knowledge and understanding you receive.

“I AM” defines someone with a stern personality whose characteristics are fixed and defined. Nothing seems correct/right if ideas don’t relate to this individual. It is always a bone of contention, whereby the relationships are always been questioned. Some relationships tend to tolerate the behavior either due to their hidden interests/benefits while the rest will deem it unnecessary to be in a continuous disagreement and accept their being, but this doesn’t mean they are happy but rather choose peace over war. One of the disadvantages of this kind of personality is they are surrounded mostly by unintentional love, and it can only be felt when you are in desperate need and no one is available to assist you genuinely without any interest.

“I AM BECOMING” defines someone who is willing to learn at every opportunity. There’s no time for regrets, mistakes, rejections, and failure is a learning process and not a mourning phase. Their flexibility over major events in their life astonishes the “I AM” personality due to their acceptance of the change. They build sustainable relationships with any age group and keep creating a networking platform. One of their most powerful tools is when confronted with conflict, they are able to distinguish between the perception of the person and the conflict itself (meaning they discuss the conflict than blame the person involved in the conflict). On the negative side, they are being referred to as weak/soft persons, and their high level of emotional intelligence is being taken advantage of and being confused to be nice rather than kind (we will discuss this in our next post).

These two nature brings out the best and the worst in a Being. We have both qualities, and it depends on the individual to choose which personality he/she wants to be known for. Our existence is to build sustainable relationships because it’s our nature to express our emotions. We don’t like to be alone all the time, and even though we are surrounded by lots of technological know-how to ease our communication, the best way to feel oneness is the personality of acceptance and belonging to a community. Man can never be the same after birth, and man will always evolve into a more attractive being as long as they accept change and growth.

Words from Benjamin Franklin; “When you are finished changing, you are finished”.

While Heraclitus said; “The Only Constant in Life Is Change.”-

New Episode for SEPTEMBER

Title: THE ESSENTIALS

These episodes will discuss interesting topics which will be revealed every Monday this September on our YouTube channel. We will discuss detailing concerning the relevance of one existence and ways we can mitigate our conflict within ourselves and communicate better with individuals and our environment.

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Happy September 2022!

Be Brave Always!

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Pauline NGONGANG
Pauline NGONGANG

Written by Pauline NGONGANG

Pauline NGONGANG talks about mindset-shift, by providing guidance on how to build/cultivate minds to attain their utmost potentials.

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