Pauline NGONGANG
2 min readMar 19, 2022

PART TWO: WHAT ARE YOU MOST SCARED ABOUT?

French: De quoi as-tu peur? Spanish: ¿De qué tienes miedo?

3. Relationships. Many people are scared of commitments but love when people are committed to them.

Relationships are always known as 50/50 % expecting everything equal in respect and love. The actual reality proves that not all love can be reciprocated the same way, but what makes it the same is the decision to make things right with the words matching with the actions. Take into deep consideration, the decisions which had to elevate your moral standards and ambitions.

Due to your engagements with individuals who don’t value or drag you into their shallow minds instead of bringing out their commitments by supporting you in other to bring the best in you.

Now your fear is how you will make them feel when you decide to push further, have you thought of how they make you sad about not seeing the other side of greatness!

4. Environment:

The environment we live in shapes our cultural identity. These identities are found in the language, food, beliefs, and ethnicity. Moving further to understanding what’s being human, we gradually develop a personal identity. Don’t confuse personal identity and cultural identity.

Culture is the backbone of personal, and personal identity is the engine to building a brand of yourself.

We are scared of the environment due to our cultural ties and that prevents us from initiating our personal traits.

Personal identity comes with our principles, values, and morals. It is about bringing forth your humanity.

Evaluate yourself again and think of this, maybe is your relationship or the environment?

NB: we continue with part 3 tomorrow

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Pauline NGONGANG
Pauline NGONGANG

Written by Pauline NGONGANG

Pauline NGONGANG talks about mindset-shift, by providing guidance on how to build/cultivate minds to attain their utmost potentials.

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