We are magnates.
Either we are pull by the strong ones or we pull the weaker ones. Imagine when two powerful magnate meets, what happens? They colide together to make a stronger bond. There’s an agreemeWe are magnates. If today you are asked;
1.Are you the stronger magnet?
2.Are you the weaker magnet?
Or
3. You are that magnet, that knows its value and can withstand any situation and still remains strong despite the conditions.

That magnet I’m referring to is your personality. Your character comes in after you have defined your personality.